That was our choice. Fundamentally, I'm certain that the choice could have gone no other way. But again, that was our choice to make.
We don't pretend to know the complications of strangers' situations. We're not going to judge them by our set of preconceptions of what is right. But we do respect their autonomy to make choices for themselves. That's why The Hater likes to say that we're "pro adoption" when painted into a pro choice vs pro life argument.
Unfortunately, society twists lots of issues into unnecessary dichotomies.